This is a public service announcement to all the testosterone charged males out there – Stop sexting women you hardly know.


(And we know you are out there.)

Are you pondering about the fabulously original and innocent idea of sexting? Or being uber-flirty with someone you hardly know?

Seriously, stop, drop your phone and read on.

I’m going to throw out some personal experience with you today that has me FUMING. Recently a guy that I thought was a friend, and who I have never even met in person, sent me a series of overly sexual messages.

Obviously, I have a thing for flirty text messages, seduction and all that…or I wouldn’t have created my website or been writing about it for the last 4 years.

But…do I have a thing for unsolicited sexual messages?

F#$k no!

Did his texts turn me on?

Did they make me want to throw my clothes on the floor and do all the crazy things he suggested?

Did his frequent phone calls in the middle of the night (that I would only see the next morning because hey, I value my sleep) make my heart race?

No, no, no!

His messages pissed me off.

His creepy phone calls made me think – needy loser, who the hell makes a booty call from another country at 4 am? Has he confused me with a sex phone chat line or something? Is he really that stupid or in need?

You know what he managed to do?

Go from someone I genuinely liked and felt a connection with, to someone that I disliked.


Because he disrespected me. He destroyed any chances of us ever dating or even meeting each other in person. I mean, if a guy can’t control himself over text, what the heck is going to happen when we are face to face? It made me nervous to say the least.

So what’s the moral of the story?

It’s simple. Even if she has a nice profile photo that makes you drool with excitement, she seems “chill”, cracks funny jokes, calls you cute names…it still doesn’t give you permission to send her super sexy texts and say things to her like “I want to f you” or “I want a BJ” or anything else.

Because the answer is NO.

The desire is nada.

And you have just etched your face in the douchebag hall of fame.

Go out and buy a blow up doll.

Start a journal.

Call one of your friends and talk about chicks.

Buy a poster of some bikini clad bimbo at Wal-Mart.

But whatever you do, don’t sext random girls or some girl you haven’t even met.

While you’re at it, don’t text an ex-girlfriend and start throwing crap out there either. Keep it all in your pants…your cell phone and…well, you know.

Sorry to disappoint.

Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox

Founder of Text Weapon

Claudia is the creator of Text Weapon, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She is passionate about modern communication and loves helping people improve their relationships through flirty texting. To read more by Claudia, visit Text Weapon . Don’t forget to signup for the FREE Texting Club trial with over 300 messages. You can also hit her up on Twitter

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